A Shield Against Grief

“When grief ambushes someone I love, I want to wrap them up in my arms until the love I am pouring into them mends the tatters, stitches up the tears, and fills that empty space. Usually, I do not touch them for fear that I will break their facade and leave them helpless, crying for the remainder of the day.

To replace that hug, I create a mourning shawl. With the mourning shawl in place over their shoulders or around their neck, my friend knows my love and thoughts, and that big old hug travels with them through their day.” --  LA Bourgeois

As you embark on this meaningful knitting project for someone special, infuse each stitch with powerful intention, healing, and light. As you create this shawl, keep in mind the specific person you are knitting for and the love you wish to convey. The energy you invest into your work will radiate throughout the fibers of the yarn. Each time the recipient wraps the shawl around themselves or runs their fingers across the fabric, they will feel the warmth of your intentions and blessings. This shawl is not just a gift; it’s a tangible expression of comfort, support, and compassion during difficult times. Whether you choose to knit a delicate lace pattern or a cozy bulky design, remember that the emotional journey you share through your knitting can be a source of strength and solace. As you craft this mourning shawl, you will be offering not only a physical item but also the emotional support and love that transcends distance and time. Your thoughtful creation will become a cherished reminder of your connection, bringing both peace and warmth to someone in need.